Tuesday, December 5, 2006

Sumedha: hello,sir many time i reach 2 a stage of indecision .m unable to take decisions. by dis it appears dat one lacks confidance but as far as i can analyze myself i do act very confidently in seminars , public speaking etc but when it comes to taking a decision no matter how small i often struck... can u plz help

Baladheepak AC: Decidability is a skill.
No doubt.
Lack of confidence is one leak what you have identified.

Along with, check how assertive you are.
You may ask your peers on your assertiveness level and am sure, they would be glad to help you out.

Okey,Now you know how assertive you are,Go through the question How daring am I?
Only if you are daring to do a thing, you would realise that taking a decision is like leaping from stone to stone amidst strong current Unless you dare to leave the stone on which you have a strong foot hold, you wont land the other step.

In short, thats what is known as risk ability

Summery,
Check your...
Assertiveness,
Courage and
Risk ability

Improve these and Decision making skills are on your way in your field of work