Hi, can u give suggestion to overcome my sadnes.. i loved agirl.. she also loved me. but after three months she told she got engagement with another guy and left me.. but recently i came to know that she is not engaged .. she is in orkut also.. ive asked why she told lie and left me.. but she is not even replying.. hey she ignored me.. why i dont know.. iam very stressed.. after she left and now also she is cursing me.. pls tel me the ways to forget her and come up in life..
Baladheepak AC : There is nothing more painful than to suffer indifference from the one we love.
Let us understand a few things,
First - if the person whom we love (or think that we love), is exhibiting indifference, then there might be some problem with us. (one must have great guts to accept this). So, to overcome that, communicate with the person in all humbleness and see how soonyou can learn about the problem.
Once you learn, then see if this problem of yours might extend beyond one person and affect other relationships too.
Action needed : Take a paper and write a letter or email, but write.
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Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Thursday, November 1, 2007
Injustice - unable to tolerate
anupa
thank you sir..well i am unable to tolerate INJUSTICEpeople taking advantage of someone..telling a lie..such things really irritate me..
Baladheepak
@ Anupa
Anupa, you are a final year chemistry student.
Can you help me with this problem?
I have an equation which people claim is correct. I have a few doubts coz the molecular strengths(! I hope the term is right)of the left hand side and right hand side are not equalCan this equation be considered as right?
We both know that it cannot be considered so.
What is the reason?
The stability is challenged - right?
If an equation is carefully noticed for its stability - we have to understand how important it is to see, notice and carefully watch the stability of humans.
This starts from the mind.
If a small mistake of yours is going to be the focus, all the right things you do and the general agility of yours are out of focus.
So, keep yourself totally upon the situation (either it is a practical working, or theoratical problem..) and go according to the protocol.
If your professor has given a set of proceedures for you to go by, follow that without any intrusions in the mind.
As a guide, I remind you of the umpteen opportunities which are available in this world which you would be facing and taking up in the future.
If you are not a clearhead, then, those opportunities might not be addressed successfully.
1.Learn from the problem.
2.Know why you went off balance.
3.Become more interested in the subject - even unconsciously you should do things right.
Baladheepak AC
thank you sir..well i am unable to tolerate INJUSTICEpeople taking advantage of someone..telling a lie..such things really irritate me..
Baladheepak
@ Anupa
Anupa, you are a final year chemistry student.
Can you help me with this problem?
I have an equation which people claim is correct. I have a few doubts coz the molecular strengths(! I hope the term is right)of the left hand side and right hand side are not equalCan this equation be considered as right?
We both know that it cannot be considered so.
What is the reason?
The stability is challenged - right?
If an equation is carefully noticed for its stability - we have to understand how important it is to see, notice and carefully watch the stability of humans.
This starts from the mind.
If a small mistake of yours is going to be the focus, all the right things you do and the general agility of yours are out of focus.
So, keep yourself totally upon the situation (either it is a practical working, or theoratical problem..) and go according to the protocol.
If your professor has given a set of proceedures for you to go by, follow that without any intrusions in the mind.
As a guide, I remind you of the umpteen opportunities which are available in this world which you would be facing and taking up in the future.
If you are not a clearhead, then, those opportunities might not be addressed successfully.
1.Learn from the problem.
2.Know why you went off balance.
3.Become more interested in the subject - even unconsciously you should do things right.
Baladheepak AC
Sunday, December 17, 2006
Namrata
Namrata: Hi Sir,
I am employed into Service Industry recently and feel fine with it.I firmly believe that what we think is what we are.....means if we think positive we will surely come out with positive results and when we think negative we will receive negative. But the first problem I deal is that i am myself confused in the 1st stage of thinking i.e. i am confused at thinking stage (it always happen is this right or is this wrong).Second problem is I very fast loose interest in things which i do...I always need to do new new things.
Third problem i cant communicate my feelings properly to others.I feel i dont have good communication skill,due to which i face problem even with my collegues. and also level of confidence does not always stay same.
Could you please guide me??
Baladheepak AC :
I am employed into Service Industry recently and feel fine with it.I firmly believe that what we think is what we are.....means if we think positive we will surely come out with positive results and when we think negative we will receive negative. But the first problem I deal is that i am myself confused in the 1st stage of thinking i.e. i am confused at thinking stage (it always happen is this right or is this wrong).Second problem is I very fast loose interest in things which i do...I always need to do new new things.
Third problem i cant communicate my feelings properly to others.I feel i dont have good communication skill,due to which i face problem even with my collegues. and also level of confidence does not always stay same.
Could you please guide me??
Baladheepak AC :
Three problems..
First, you get confused,
Second, you lose interest in your activities,
Third, you have problems in communication.
Right?
If these three are right, that means I'm able to understand what you wish to convey. When you are able to clearly tell a stranger what your situation is, then you have to realise that you don't have problem in communication.
Do you still think that you have problem in communication?
Question three is answered? Communication
Ok, now to the next.
You tell me that you are confused. Let's look into this.
1. 80% of the people don't think
To get confused, you must, in the first place, think.
So, you are of the 20% of the privilaged in this world who are blessed with the ability to think. Right?
2. 60% of the people who think, have a problem of 'unilateral thinking'. Bicharre cant think more than one thing.
To get confused, you must have more than one idea and you are able to extend your imagination. Thats great. That means you are of the 40% of the 20% in the world population, which would count to 8% of the people who are able to think and think well. Okey..?
3. 3% of the people who think are able to think clearly because they are well aquainted with the subject. (Anyone who are well versed in any subject would be able to think clearly and come to a conclusive solution which would normally be demanded and these solutions are mostly right)
We all come in this 0.24% Namrata.
Don't worry.
All you have to do is be in a position to take up the challenge of deciding. Confusion
Third, you tell me that you lose interest in your activities.
What do you involve in normally?
Physical, skill oriented or time passing activities?
Let me know, I would be able to help you better.
You have a tender shoulder to lean on when you are disturbed. Lean on... Orkut
First, you get confused,
Second, you lose interest in your activities,
Third, you have problems in communication.
Right?
If these three are right, that means I'm able to understand what you wish to convey. When you are able to clearly tell a stranger what your situation is, then you have to realise that you don't have problem in communication.
Do you still think that you have problem in communication?
Question three is answered? Communication
Ok, now to the next.
You tell me that you are confused. Let's look into this.
1. 80% of the people don't think
To get confused, you must, in the first place, think.
So, you are of the 20% of the privilaged in this world who are blessed with the ability to think. Right?
2. 60% of the people who think, have a problem of 'unilateral thinking'. Bicharre cant think more than one thing.
To get confused, you must have more than one idea and you are able to extend your imagination. Thats great. That means you are of the 40% of the 20% in the world population, which would count to 8% of the people who are able to think and think well. Okey..?
3. 3% of the people who think are able to think clearly because they are well aquainted with the subject. (Anyone who are well versed in any subject would be able to think clearly and come to a conclusive solution which would normally be demanded and these solutions are mostly right)
We all come in this 0.24% Namrata.
Don't worry.
All you have to do is be in a position to take up the challenge of deciding. Confusion
Third, you tell me that you lose interest in your activities.
What do you involve in normally?
Physical, skill oriented or time passing activities?
Let me know, I would be able to help you better.
You have a tender shoulder to lean on when you are disturbed. Lean on... Orkut
Baladheepak AC
Tuesday, December 5, 2006
Sumedha: hello,sir many time i reach 2 a stage of indecision .m unable to take decisions. by dis it appears dat one lacks confidance but as far as i can analyze myself i do act very confidently in seminars , public speaking etc but when it comes to taking a decision no matter how small i often struck... can u plz help
Baladheepak AC: Decidability is a skill.
No doubt.
Lack of confidence is one leak what you have identified.
Along with, check how assertive you are.
You may ask your peers on your assertiveness level and am sure, they would be glad to help you out.
Okey,Now you know how assertive you are,Go through the question How daring am I?
Only if you are daring to do a thing, you would realise that taking a decision is like leaping from stone to stone amidst strong current Unless you dare to leave the stone on which you have a strong foot hold, you wont land the other step.
In short, thats what is known as risk ability
Summery,
Check your...
Assertiveness,
Courage and
Risk ability
Improve these and Decision making skills are on your way in your field of work
Baladheepak AC: Decidability is a skill.
No doubt.
Lack of confidence is one leak what you have identified.
Along with, check how assertive you are.
You may ask your peers on your assertiveness level and am sure, they would be glad to help you out.
Okey,Now you know how assertive you are,Go through the question How daring am I?
Only if you are daring to do a thing, you would realise that taking a decision is like leaping from stone to stone amidst strong current Unless you dare to leave the stone on which you have a strong foot hold, you wont land the other step.
In short, thats what is known as risk ability
Summery,
Check your...
Assertiveness,
Courage and
Risk ability
Improve these and Decision making skills are on your way in your field of work
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